Tantric Massage London brings you a guide to the orgasm…
Tantric Massage is a great way to explore the sensations of prolonged arousal and full body pleasing orgasms. The male orgasm can, and usually does happen with great ease. A deep and full male orgasm can be achieved with attention to detail, T.L.C. and technique.
The female orgasm can take a little more coaxing to express itself. The Good In Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, by Dr. Emily Nagoski says “As exquisitely specific as it is sensitive, the clitoris demands trustworthiness, respect and appreciation or it will not be tempted. Treat it with kindness, generosity and patience and you will be rewarded”.
Orgasms are like waves, no two alike. They ebb, flow, rise and crest. And crash.
Masters and Johnson were some of the first to study the sexual response cycle in the early 1960s, based on the observation of 382 women and 312 men. They described a cycle that begins with excitement as blood rushes into the genitals, then reaches a plateau during which they are fully aroused, which leads to orgasm, and finally resolution, in which the blood leaves the genitals.
As a man nears orgasm during stimulation of the penis, he feels an intense and highly pleasurable pulsating sensation of neuromuscular euphoria. These pulses begin with a throb of the anal sphincter and travel to the tip of the penis. They eventually increase in speed and intensity as the orgasm approaches, until a final “plateau” (the orgasmic) pleasure sustained for several seconds.
A woman’s orgasm has the potential to last much longer a man’s orgasm experience. Women’s orgasms have been estimated to last from 7 seconds to 20 seconds and to consist of a series of muscular contractions in the pelvic area.
Tantric Massage includes the experience of a relaxing massage and sensual arousal, the tantric massage involves massaging the erogenous zones of the body throughout the entire tantric massage experience. Including the entire body, then focusing on arousing the sexual senses, then massaging the complete body again, switching between the two experiences to combine the sensations throughout the tantric massage. Then focusing on arousal bringing the sensations up to the point of climax a number of times through the tantric massage and then allowing the full release which if the receiver has truly relaxed in to the experience has the potential to be experienced through the entire body.
For a stimulating November read try “The Cliterate Male: a Primer on Pleasuring Women” by Dr Ian Kerner
“Passionista: The The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man” by Dr Ian Kerner. (His n’ Hers stocking fillers?)